With the movement of the #MeToo Movement, we are seeing the true light of men in Hollywood as well as men in general on how they treat their women counterparts. And I should start off by saying that yes, I am a supported of the MeToo Movement, I am a supporter of transgender people and I consider myself to be a very liberal person, however I do agree that people are too sensitive when they can’t handle a joke about things going on in our current world. When watching Dave Chappelle it was like a sigh of relief for someone to finally be saying jokes and not being afraid to say them, because someone has to say them.
When it comes to Chappelle talking about the sexual abuse scandals that is happening around the country, I think that it’s good he’s talking about it. He is pointing a finger at these people saying yeah that is fucked up, but we should be able to still laugh about it as it lets people reflect on the absurdity of it all. A good example of this is when he is talking about Louis C.K. and starts making a mockery of him “busting a nut” on his stomach. It’s ridiculous to think that someone could actually do this in front of someone he barely knows, but he did it, so we should laugh at him. Chappelle is not defending these abusers in any way from my watching of his specials. He incorporates these topics by using his own experiences as a way to connect to what these women have gone through, and this is where I draw my only line. You cannot compare the struggle black people have gone through in this country with the abuse that these women are going through in their home and workplaces. Yes, they are problems that need to be addressed, but they are so different in their complexities with society that they cannot be compared as being the same. Sarah Solemani quotes Amy Schumer, ““All women have been a little bit raped” and this is much more serious and urgent matter in the eyes of some. It also diminished the importance of the MeToo Movement because he’s saying that he can understand what they’re going through. No he can’t though. He is a successful man who has never been sexually harassed by a higher up in his life. He has no idea what’s it like to have your dream hang on the balance of giving a handjob or not.
This brings me to the topic of “being brittle” and having “brittle ears” to which I agree with him 100%. As said before, people now are too sensitive. They hear a joke that’s related to them, and they get offended. These jokes are not means to hurt you individually, if anything they are just playing on the stereotypes that everyone already knows. Chappelle also talks about being brittle and the woman who gave up her comedy dream because Louis C.K. took advantage of her, and I agree with Chappelle that she did have a “brittle dream.” To just give up on your passion like that because of one asshole trying to take advantage of you, that’s called giving up. It doesn’t make it right what Louis C.K. did to her in the slightest, but to lose all sense of your goal is brittle. There is also the question on whether or not these men can continue their work, or if we should appreciate their past work now that we know the true side of them, and Hannah Jane Parkinson poses the question, “if artists we enjoy claim no moral content or purpose to their work: ‘Why can we not enjoy it without worrying whether they were good or bad people?'” I don’t think I have a solid answer for this.
I will say however that there are other instances of sexual abuse that go far beyond masturbation in front of someone, such as Harvey Weinstein pressuring women for sex to get a role, and this is a very serious matter, and I don’t think that Chappelle is defending that in any way. He jokes about the inappropriateness of these men’s actions saying, “Sounds like a fucking nightmare, can you imagine that shit, can you imagine if you was in a business meeting and a motherfucker PULLED THEIR DICK OUT?!” He’s demonstrating the absolute horror that these women have gone through, and that women will still go through as long as these men are still in charge.
I think that comedy can make fun of everything, that’s why we listen. Jason Zinoman agrees with this on a certain extend saying that “quoting Steve Martin, is not pretty. But when Mr. Chappelle says some of the sexual assault victims speaking out are now experiencing “buyer’s remorse,” a particularly cruel turn of phrase, this is surely not the funniest thing he can think of.” It’s probably not the funniest thing he could think of, but everyone could understand what he’s trying to say. The point of comedy is to push peoples buttons and make them see the lighter side of life. Chappelle does this very well. Even more so, he doesn’t just go into a bunch of cheap jokes, he gets much more serious in his act, especially when talking about Emmett Till in Equanimity. He doesn’t sugarcoat what happened to that boy, and he says the truth about that woman. If it wasn’t for her lie, who knows what the country would look like now in terms of reaching for racial equality. Yes it is a horrible, unforgivable thing that her lie murdered an innocent boy, but who knows how many lives were changed because of that lie. Then Chappelle follows up his joke with the punchline “then I would kick her in the pussy” and it’s funny. He made us think and take a step back to the realities that are in our history and in our country today, but he still makes us laugh.